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| 1 | Today I am thankful for cloudy, rainy, cozy days! |
| 2 | Today I am thankful for sweet signs and reassurance. |
| 3 | Today I am thankful for being NORMAL. |
| 4 | Today I am thankful for POOH BEAR! |
| 5 | Today I am thankful for snack and movie nights! |
| 6 | Today i am thankful for being able to explore. |
| 7 | Today I am thankful for rainy sunday mornings. |
| 8 | Today I am thankful for lots of busy work! |
| 9 | Today I am thankful for happy memories. |
| 10 | Today I am thankful for funny people! |
| 11 | Today I am thankful for living in Arizona. |
| 12 | Today I am thankful for rainy days. |
| 13 | Today I am thankful for rest. |
| 14 | Today I am thankful for early morning producitivity! |
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| 16 | Today I am thankful for being alive. |
| 17 | Today I am thankful for me. |
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| 22 | Today I'm thankful for good conversation. |
| 23 | Today I am thankful for sweet people! |
| 24 | Today I am thankful for all the love. |
| 25 | Today I am thankful for patience. |
| 26 | Today I am thankful for being me. |
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| 28 | Today I am thankful for sweet boys! |
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| 30 | Today I am thankful for LOVE. |
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1. Who do you like more - them, or you?
There really is no right answer to this question. If you love them more than you love yourself - it's an unhealthy relationship/will more than likely be an unhealthy relationship. If you love yourself more than you love them - probably just isn't the right relationship. I think a good relationship involves realizing that the more you love them, the more they love you - and the more you find yourself loveable. Does that make sense? Love is a roundabout thing - you shouldn't feel like you have to sacrifice the love you have for yourself OR the love you have for the other person. It should just be.
2. How do you prioritize your time? Alone AND together?
If you're rushing through your own personal duties to be with the person you love that usually isn't a giant red flag for an unhealthy relationship - it just means you're into them! But if you find that other areas of your life are lacking because you're making this person the center of your life - that is unhealthy.
Same can be said of time spent together. If you're interested in other things while you are together rather than just being together - it's probably headed down an unhealthy path faster than you think.
Time spent alone should be time to grow as an individual, time spent together should be spent growing as a pair.
3. How long have you been together?
You can more than likely gauge pretty quickly and early on in a relationship whether or not it's an unhealthy one. USUALLY, you see all the red flags - ignore them - then end up in said unhealthy relationship for WAY longer than you should. If it's the beginning stages and you're weary of the direction the relationship is going - you're probably not wrong to feel that way: trust your gut. If you're DEEP into a relationship and asking yourself if it's unhealthy/when it started to get unhealthy, you can probably pin point where things started getting iffy probably pretty early on. Be mindful of your heart and your mind while starting a relationship/continuing one as well. You know more than you think.
There really is no right answer to this question. If you love them more than you love yourself - it's an unhealthy relationship/will more than likely be an unhealthy relationship. If you love yourself more than you love them - probably just isn't the right relationship. I think a good relationship involves realizing that the more you love them, the more they love you - and the more you find yourself loveable. Does that make sense? Love is a roundabout thing - you shouldn't feel like you have to sacrifice the love you have for yourself OR the love you have for the other person. It should just be.
2. How do you prioritize your time? Alone AND together?
If you're rushing through your own personal duties to be with the person you love that usually isn't a giant red flag for an unhealthy relationship - it just means you're into them! But if you find that other areas of your life are lacking because you're making this person the center of your life - that is unhealthy.
Same can be said of time spent together. If you're interested in other things while you are together rather than just being together - it's probably headed down an unhealthy path faster than you think.
Time spent alone should be time to grow as an individual, time spent together should be spent growing as a pair.
3. How long have you been together?
You can more than likely gauge pretty quickly and early on in a relationship whether or not it's an unhealthy one. USUALLY, you see all the red flags - ignore them - then end up in said unhealthy relationship for WAY longer than you should. If it's the beginning stages and you're weary of the direction the relationship is going - you're probably not wrong to feel that way: trust your gut. If you're DEEP into a relationship and asking yourself if it's unhealthy/when it started to get unhealthy, you can probably pin point where things started getting iffy probably pretty early on. Be mindful of your heart and your mind while starting a relationship/continuing one as well. You know more than you think.
Vampire: Someone offers you a chance at immortality. Do you take it, and why or why not?
- This one is SO hard but I think I would... because I have like a weird anxiety with time and I think I would live a significantly more enjoyable life if I knew I had an unlimited amount, lol.
Werewolf: If you had to spend your life with just one person, who would it be?
- This one is SO hard but I think I would... because I have like a weird anxiety with time and I think I would live a significantly more enjoyable life if I knew I had an unlimited amount, lol.
Werewolf: If you had to spend your life with just one person, who would it be?
- Just me I think. Or if dogs could live forever then Cainey!
Witch: If you could change one thing about the world, what would it be?
Witch: If you could change one thing about the world, what would it be?
- *rolls eyes* this is the hardest/most frustrating question ever, haha. BUT I think it would be people's mindfulness (or lack thereof) for each other.
Ghost: Do you have any regrets?
Ghost: Do you have any regrets?
- YES.
Frankenstein: Is someone telling you how to live your life, or are you an independent person?
Frankenstein: Is someone telling you how to live your life, or are you an independent person?
- I N D E P E N D E N T.
Mummy: If you were to fall into an eternal sleep, do you think anyone would miss you?
Mummy: If you were to fall into an eternal sleep, do you think anyone would miss you?
- I would hope so, haha.
Zombie: Do you miss anyone right now?
Zombie: Do you miss anyone right now?
- No one in particular!
Faerie: If you could get away with anything, what would you do?
Faerie: If you could get away with anything, what would you do?
- Probably not have to pay for anything - not necessarily rob a bank or steal money, but if I could get away with no one expecting me to pay for anything i pick that.
Nymph: What are you like when you’re by yourself?
- Quiet???
Mermaid: How far would you go to keep the one you love?
- Not that far honestly, haha. I'm like if it's too difficult I'm A-OK with finding a better option, even if it means not being with that person!
Shapeshifter: What would you change about yourself?
- MY SKIN (lately I've been breaking out so bad, haha).
Banshee: If you knew one of your loved ones/best friends had only one day left to live, how would you spend that last day with them?
- Probably doing something really relaxing like staying home and talking, like really talking and understanding them.
Siren: If you could make anyone do anything, what would you make them do?
- BE NICE.
Genie: If you had one wish that would come true and couldn’t be reversed, what would you ask for?
- TO BE RICH, haha.
Fury: What is a word/phrase that you dread to hear?
- "fire" "bomb" or basically any phrase along those lines - I hate slang unless its funny.
Succubus: What’s one thing you can’t live without?
Nymph: What are you like when you’re by yourself?
- Quiet???
Mermaid: How far would you go to keep the one you love?
- Not that far honestly, haha. I'm like if it's too difficult I'm A-OK with finding a better option, even if it means not being with that person!
Shapeshifter: What would you change about yourself?
- MY SKIN (lately I've been breaking out so bad, haha).
Banshee: If you knew one of your loved ones/best friends had only one day left to live, how would you spend that last day with them?
- Probably doing something really relaxing like staying home and talking, like really talking and understanding them.
Siren: If you could make anyone do anything, what would you make them do?
- BE NICE.
Genie: If you had one wish that would come true and couldn’t be reversed, what would you ask for?
- TO BE RICH, haha.
Fury: What is a word/phrase that you dread to hear?
- "fire" "bomb" or basically any phrase along those lines - I hate slang unless its funny.
Succubus: What’s one thing you can’t live without?
- Lots of things, but realistically - water.
+ Get rid of 10 items of clothing (at least).
+ Go to a haunted house.
+ Do a "Halloween" activity every weekend!
+ Vegan mon-fri!
+ Eat out only FOUR times MAX.
+ Create an instagram theme for myself.
+ Keep up with daily to do's.
+ Keep up with monthly to do's.
+ Carve a pumpkin!
+ Dress up!!!!!